Thursday, March 19, 2015

Combating kid ninja mind tricks

I stared at the little piece of blank paper in my hand, searching my mind for something meaningful and witty and smart to write. But I had no kids of my own. So how was I going to come up with any parenting advice that would be believable?

Bribery is a perfectly acceptable form of parenting, I wrote, before adding my little bit of paper to the pile of papers intended for my pregnant friend.

Fast forward eight months, and there I was, holding my own baby girl, feeling like mother nature herself.

And I had no idea just how colourfully my world was going to explode into a million bits of “What the f*** am I supposed to do now?”. Starting with breastfeeding. Because no matter how many books you’ve read and dolls you’ve cuddled in your prenatal classes, the real deal is tough. Like, ugly-cry tough.

But I digress.

The parenting advice I had so smart-ass-ly come up with during baby shower games, has turned out to be pretty good advice. Because today, my little baby girl, SV, is almost three years old (and she’s a big sister too, just FYI). And I’ve become a master briber. There’s almost nothing she wouldn’t do, just to get her hands on a bit of chocolate or *gasp* a cupcake.

And yes, I know I should feel really bad about bribing my kid. But she shamelessly uses kid-ninja mind tricks on me, to get her way. And something’s gotta give…  right?





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